It's Done
I finally grew some sack and did it. I broke up with the boyfriend. He took it well and said he suspected that it was coming. Still, I felt like a jerk.
I told him I had a good time hanging out with him but I didn’t feel the same way about him that he was feeling about me. I didn’t want to lead him on into thinking something was happening that wasn’t. Maybe we can still be friends.
He said he knew that I am a very independent person and that having a boyfriend probably wasn’t for me. I am not sure what that means but I am glad he took it well.
I still feel like a jerk.
posted by Scott E D @ 5:42 PM
6 comments
6 Comments:
It's for the best (pardon my 2 cents).
*Big Bear Hug* lol
Having a boyfriend probably wasn't for you! Cheeky moo. Big hug too.
While he gave you a backhanded comment there, you did the right thing. Of course you feel like a jerk, because you know how it feels on the other end.
Yup, I have to say you did what you had to do. No one knows what is going on inside (although you clued us in pretty well), and no one has a right to pass judgement on your actions. So you might feel like a jerk, so what? You did what you needed to do, and it is all going to be much better. Take a deep breath, and go on.
Sometimes we just need some real honest good friends, and not bother with any bf. They are a lot more trouble than they are worth, I feel. (am I sounding a bit too defensive, do you think?) And in the end, there is just you. How do you like yourself? That is the ultimate question.
grew some sack (that's funny)
The boyfriend? I was the boyfriend already?
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